Eight Pregnancy Essentials

It's so easy to get lost in the plethora of information out there on how to be pregnant and what you need to get. From experience, you don't need a lot. It reminds me of when I planned my wedding. I tried to keep things minimal to keep costs down and I had the same mentality about being pregnant. I knew that I didn't want to buy a ton of maternity clothes, but that I wanted to buy things I could transition into after having the baby.  I also became hyper-aware of natural and cruelty free products.  

While my belly grew, I had and still have a hard time buying maternity clothing. I was so disapointed with the clothing out there for pregnant and nursing mothers that you either had to pay an arm and a leg to get a cute outfit, or look like a total mom from another planet. I would often buy clothing that wouldn't necessarily fall into the maternity category.  I wanted to find clothing that I could invest in and wouldn't become disposable. The top stores that I gravitated towards that offered the most comfort and versatility include: (this is just my experience and in no way is this sponsored. I hope this deems helpful for current or future pregnant moms)

  • ASOS Maternity: cute and hip clothing that has edge
  • Madewell: I know they carry maternity jeans, but I never tried them on. I purchased clothing that easily fit my belly and just sized up from a small to a medium.
  • HATCH collection: pricy yet sophisticated clothing; think investment pieces
  • Target: basics that you will wear daily
  • Urban Outfitters: You have to be selective here because they do not cater to pregnant moms, but sometimes the fit is big enough to accommodate a belly.
  • Loyal Hana: I have yet to purchase a piece here, but plan to once I get into the groove of nursing.
  • Birkenstocks: These shoes were amazing for my last trimester. My feet would swell up if I was on my feet too much and they were a lifesaver.
  • Nisolo: I wore the huarache sandal all the time. They expanded to fit my foot easily and were easy to slide on and off. Wearing shoes that you cannot slide on are quite difficult to put on 2nd and 3rd trimester.

1. Fat and the Moon Growing Belly Balm: At first, I thought that this would be difficult to get out of the jar; however, this ended up being my favorite lathering balm to apply at night. I love the way this smells and that I can pronounce all the ingredients. I tried Palmer's Shea Butter Lotion, but I seriously felt like I smelled like a cup of hot cocoa. If you are into smelling like that, then buy that product. I just wanted a subtle cocoa butter scent without it overpowering my senses and this product does the trick. Prices range from $16-20, depending on where you buy it, but it is well worth the cost to avoid future stretch marks.

2. Herbivore's Moonfruit Superfruit Night Treatment: At the beginning of pregnancy, I broke out on my face with pimples. So, I decided to give this product a try and it has lasted me my entire pregnancy for my night cream. I paired it with the Lapis facial oil and it is a dream.  I currently do not have any pimples on my face and have been keeping it glowing since the day I put it on.

3. Megafoods Baby and Me 2 Vitamins: I took these vitamins three months before even thinking about getting pregnant. I accidentally took the wrong dose at first, but soon realized that you must take two a day.  The pills are pricy, but I like that they are dairy free and you can take them on an empty stomach.

4. 32oz. Hydroflask: This waterbottle helped me regulate how much water I was drinking in a day. I knew I had to drink two rounds of this to get sufficient hydration. I would often drink 32oz. before leaving work and then another round of 32oz. before bed. It was a challenge since I wanted flavored or carbonated water (so weird). 

5. Jade Yoga Mat: Although for the first five months I was rock climbing, spinning, and doing pop physique, I have been super consistent with practicing Iyengar yoga at Yogaworks and Yoga Darsana. This is, by far, my favorite yoga mat. It has a rubbery feel, but doesn't smell like rubber. It is not super padded, which helps with nailing my poses.

6. Current/Elliott x Hatch Jeans: I wanted jeans that I could wear after delivery and these jeans served me well all nine months. I loved current/elliot jeans prior to being pregnant and knew that it would be a worthy investment. I purchased black and blue in the skinny version.

7. Grown Alchemist Intensive Hand Cream: Persian Rose: My hands became so dry while being pregnant and I gravitated towards this scent and it easily became a staple in my purse.

8. Rituals Incense: This scent saved my life throughout my pregnancy. I became so sensitive to smells that I only wanted to smell palo santo. These sticks stay lit like incense and don't go out as easily as a regular palo santo.

Our DIY Wedding

It has been a year and a half (7.12.14) since our wedding and we are ecstatic for what is in store for us. The wedding planning process ignited our desire to share our designs with the world. We took pride in designing every aspect our wedding. However, we craved to design more and challenged each other to take our collaborative efforts to the next level.  We truly wanted our wedding to be very DIY, or do it yourself and never imagined that our art would continue to grow. Even though I had no idea how Justin and I pulled off a destination wedding in the middle of nowhere, I am extremely happy how every played out on that special day. If you would like to read about the story of how we met and the proposal, peek here.

The Venue

The Venue

Special banner made by me to indicate what cabin we stayed in at the bed and breakfast.

Special banner made by me to indicate what cabin we stayed in at the bed and breakfast.

The Dress

The Dress

I was able to dance in these shoes all night!

I was able to dance in these shoes all night!

My gorgeous bouquet

My gorgeous bouquet

Fabric invitation designed by Justin and I (photo by Nicole) and printed by Spoonflower

Fabric invitation designed by Justin and I (photo by Nicole) and printed by Spoonflower

The complete invitation and Thatch and Thistle stickers (photo by Nicole)

The complete invitation and Thatch and Thistle stickers (photo by Nicole)

The ring pillow

The ring pillow

The hand-made banner by me.

The hand-made banner by me.

Justin designed the tie and we designed the fabric invitation.

Justin designed the tie and we designed the fabric invitation.

A collaborative effort for a logo on a flag and matching button by Justin and me. Everyone had a flag at their seat during the ceremony to wave as people walked down the aisle. I watercolored thick paper and wrote everyone's name in a caligraphy-typ…

A collaborative effort for a logo on a flag and matching button by Justin and me. Everyone had a flag at their seat during the ceremony to wave as people walked down the aisle. I watercolored thick paper and wrote everyone's name in a caligraphy-type font.

Of course, our first look entailed a selfie.

Of course, our first look entailed a selfie.

The Chuppah includes a tablecloth from my grandma and borrowed sticks from our friend's wedding.

The Chuppah includes a tablecloth from my grandma and borrowed sticks from our friend's wedding.

Enjoying every minute!

Enjoying every minute!

The laser cut Ketubah is designed by Justin.

The laser cut Ketubah is designed by Justin.

The set-list with my handwriting.

The set-list with my handwriting.

The interactive guestbook entertained our guests.

The interactive guestbook entertained our guests.

For our guestbook, we had our guests replace their water-colored placecards (done by me) with snapshots wishing us words of wisdom. We were creative and use a rose fence to hold up all the placecards and photographs.

For our guestbook, we had our guests replace their water-colored placecards (done by me) with snapshots wishing us words of wisdom. We were creative and use a rose fence to hold up all the placecards and photographs.

The gold numbers along with the gold dotted burlap runners added to the amazing meal.

The gold numbers along with the gold dotted burlap runners added to the amazing meal.

I purchased some vintage kerchiefs and stamped the words "BRIDE" AND "GROOM."

I purchased some vintage kerchiefs and stamped the words "BRIDE" AND "GROOM."

The meticulous setting for every table included various flower arrangements.

The meticulous setting for every table included various flower arrangements.

We absolutely had to have these flags in the flower arrangements. Many of the vases for flowers were recycled cans, recycled bottles from kombucha Justin and I drank, and thrifted drinkware.

We absolutely had to have these flags in the flower arrangements. Many of the vases for flowers were recycled cans, recycled bottles from kombucha Justin and I drank, and thrifted drinkware.

We used compostable flatware and wrapped it in velvet ribbon. We then placed it in a hand-stamped paper bag to make it more personalized. The parting gift included honey local to the area prepared by me.

We used compostable flatware and wrapped it in velvet ribbon. We then placed it in a hand-stamped paper bag to make it more personalized. The parting gift included honey local to the area prepared by me.

Bride and groom table

Bride and groom table

Dancing with the parents

Dancing with the parents

Dancing with our amazing DJ: Roger Mars

Dancing with our amazing DJ: Roger Mars

Oh, how we still dream of our lavender cupcakes made by Rosemary who runs Saint Orres.

Oh, how we still dream of our lavender cupcakes made by Rosemary who runs Saint Orres.

Fin!

Fin!

His: suit and shirt c/o Ben Sherman, tie c/o eyeloveyou co., shoes c/o Bed Stu, ring is an heirloom

Hers: dress c/o Sarah Seven, shoes, c/o , shoes c/o Seychelles, rings designed by Justin

Other: wedding day coordinator c/o Going Lovely, photographer: Hollin Brodeur, videographer: Eric Whedbee, food and venue: St. Orres, flower crown and bouquets c/o Garden by the Sea, DJ: Roger Mars,

Accessories: ring pillow: BHLDN, turquoise paper flags: Ay, Mujer!, blue wine glasses: Anthropologie, vases for flowers: thrifted and recycled items, wood slabs: my cousin had them precut from a tree in her backyard, table runners: purchased fabric and constructed by me from: Joanns, rose fence for pictures: Home-Depot, fabric letters for fence: BHLDN